Father’s Day is such a big deal to so many people; it can be a huge source of anxiety for so many reasons! I have been blessed enough to have my father in my life and have the same for my daughter, but there are so many people who have not been in that situation and I empathize with them today. Whether that be because their father has already moved on to another life or their father made a decision not to be present, I recognize your pain on Father’s Day and send your healing and persevering vibes!
My husband likes to plan things for me for like Mother’s Day or my birthday and I used to do the same for him, but I found that to be super stressful. I love giving credit where credit is due and going out of my way to make people feel love and appreciated, but my husband is not timely when I’m trying to surprise him; so this year I adapted! Instead of having everything planned to a T and setting us up to both be frustrated, I just went with the flow and had a general idea of places to go and things that I wanted to do for him.